Hollywood tends to depict orgasm as easy, mutual and simultaneous. In reality, many women struggle to reach climax with a partner; while others find they come 'too soon'.
The better you know your body, the more fun you can have. Most women have let their fingers do the walking but understanding your bits in more detail will help you get a lot more pleasure.
An orgasm is the body's way of rewarding us for sex. However, if you're sleepy, unfit, have a poor diet, drink, smoke or take drugs, these can all affect your ability to come.